Your wedding day isn’t just an event—it’s a once-in-a-lifetime story. Whether you dream of magazine-worthy portraits that make you feel glamorous, or candid, unfiltered moments that capture you in the middle of a laugh, your photographer shapes how you’ll remember it forever.

This is more than finding “someone with a good camera.” It’s about finding the person you trust to capture your day exactly how you want to remember it.

How Do You Want to Feel on Your Wedding Day?

Before you start Googling, take a breath and picture the experience you want:

  • Do you want to spend time in perfectly composed poses, showing off your gown and looking like you just stepped out of a bridal editorial?
  • Or do you want to be fully in the moment—hand in hand, dancing, hugging, laughing—and trust your photographer to quietly capture it all?

Every photographer works differently. Some are hands-on and direct every move; others take a quiet, documentary approach, blending into the background so you barely notice they’re there. 

Every Photographer Has a Different Style (and That’s a Good Thing)

Style isn’t just about filters—it’s about approach.

Some photographers love getting right in close, capturing every intimate expression. Others prefer to blend into the background, staying mindful of guests’ views and letting moments unfold naturally.

As well as style on the day, there are different approaches to timelines. Some help design your wedding day schedule to maximize photos without rushing the day. Others slot into your existing schedule and work around it.

Ask: Do they help with first looks, family portraits, or golden hour portraits? Ask yourself if that is something you think can help the day run smoother or if you are ok on your own. 

You may want a wedding planner to handle these things, such as Neesa at Neesa and Co or Faye at https://epic-events.ca/

 

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Ask Yourself What Style of Photos Are You Drawn To?

Every photographer has a unique way of seeing the world. Some lean toward bright and airy, others love deep, moody tones, some focus on candid, emotional, true-to-life colors and others offer a mix. I focus on making picture time fun for you and a time to connect. I offer the candids during these times and make sure to get in some stunning photos as well. 

A great way to do this is to think back to a photo that you absolutely love (It doesn’t have to be a wedding photograph). What do you love about it? Is it the colors, the connection, the feel of it?

Tip: Browse full galleries or slideshows— not just Instagram highlights — so you can see how they handle every part of a wedding day.
📷 See some of my full slideshows here: 

Think About the Final Products You’ll Treasure

Digital files are great—but what will you hold in your hands? Are you someone that will do this or would you rather someone else handle it?

  • Albums for anniversaries
  • Wall art to display your story
  • Digital galleries with every meaningful moment

Can You Imagine Spending the Day With Them?

You’ll spend more time with your photographer than almost anyone else. Ask yourself:

  • Do they make you feel comfortable and confident?
  • Can they guide you without stealing the spotlight?
  • Could they calm nerves and make your family feel at ease?
  • Is this someone you would actually want to spend time with?

    The connection matters as much as their technical skill.

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Read Reviews & Ask for Testimonials

With so many horror stories of photographers ghosting these days, reviews mean everything. Real feedback from past couples will tell you more than any portfolio can. Look for reviews that mention not just the photos, but how the photographer made people feel. Reviews can help to calm your nerves and get clear on if they are the person for you. You can also check out things like Wedding Wire.  Although not all photographers keep that stuff up to date. 

 

In the end, the “perfect” Calgary wedding photographer is someone who understands your vision, matches your energy, and makes the day feel effortless.

If you are still asking yourself questions—about style, locations, timelines, or how to capture authentic moments—I’ve created a comprehensive guide that will dive deeper and is full of practical, hands-on activities to help you get crystal clear on exactly what you want for your wedding and engagement photos.

Choosing Shannon to be our photographer was one of the best wedding decisions we made. Something myself and my now husband found to be the most intimidating step when planning, was finding the right photographer. Upon starting our search for a photographer, we were overwhelmed with the quantity of wedding professionals out there. It seemed many portfolios had the same look, and that seeing pictures was really all we had to go by when making a choice. Besides having gorgeous photos to represent her work, Shannon was the only photography professional that felt like a person, and not just a camera. No one really stood out to us, and we felt that it was eventually just time to pick one just to secure a booking. But something was telling me to keep looking...and I am so glad we did, because this is when we found Shannon! Upon reaching out to Shannon, she scheduled a virtual meet and greet with us so that we would be able to get to know the person behind the camera. (Click down arrows to read full review)

We appreciated getting to know her before making any bookings, and actually talking with her about what we wanted out wedding day to look like. I really felt like she wanted to get to know us and our vision before she accepted the job. We chose a package that also included engagement photos, and I am so glad we did! Of course, the photos turned out incredible, but I think that having that first shoot with Shannon really gave us an idea of what the wedding day would feel like with her as well. My husband and I were both weary of being in front of the camera, and often feel quite robotic or unnatural in photos, but on the day of our engagement shoot, it honestly felt like there was no camera present. Shannon took on the challenge of photographing the both of us and our horse, who was particularly frisky that day. The weather was also less than ideal, very windy and grey. But once we started the shoot, it was like none of those factors mattered. Shannon had us laughing and talking and just having a great time. She captured all the precious moments with our horse, and made us feel surprisingly comfortable! It was not pose after pose, but rather, she let us just be ourselves with some direction. The photos that resulted from this were so natural and fun! I feel like she truly captured US. The wedding and the days leading up to it were no different. As to be expected with wedding planning, there were things that were out of our control-weather, road construction etc. Throughout all of the stressors, Shannon was there to comfort and reassure us. She wanted to be in the loop when it came to the days schedule, and it was important to her to know what we especially wanted captured. She walked in that day knowing fully what was happening & when. She was ready and prepared for everything! The weather during the day of the wedding was very up and down, and Shannon knew I was nervous about this. Along with assuring me that everything would be beautiful despite the weather, she brought my whole family clear umbrellas for the pictures. We got lucky and didn’t have to use them! But the fact that she thought about us was incredible! Our photos turned out magical, we had no doubts about that, but something that myself, my husband, and my family cannot stop talking about is how amazing Shannon and her team were on the day. We had a very intimate ceremony and reception, so having two photographers, my family and friends got to know them and interact with them. They made our guests feel so comfortable in front of the camera! the pictures captured the hearts of each of them! Having Shannon and her team at the wedding felt like we had more friends there. Although they took the job very seriously, and were always right there for each moment, it felt like they were a part of the day as family! Choosing Shannon to be our photographer was one of the best wedding decisions we made. There is truly no one more perfect that we could have had capture our special day. Thank you Shannon and Team! Thank you for capturing all of the special moments, and for just being you! – Malcolm and Sarah Frey

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